For seven years I’ve been subjected to harassment, stalking, threats, and terror. The abuse has taken many forms:
- Graphic text messages about my children dying.
- Descriptions of my daughter’s bedroom.
- Dozens of calls in the early hours, including seven times on Christmas Day.
- Photos of my children being shared.
- Men turning up at my events to scream abuse at me.
- Threats that I would be attacked, terrified, and made to pay.
- A wish that I had been attacked with acid.
The police have taken my statements. They have seen the calls with their own eyes. They have confirmed his address. And yet, instead of arresting him, they have passed my case back and forth between Wiltshire Police, Avon & Somerset, and now possibly the Metropolitan Police. Each force shrugs, says it belongs elsewhere, and in the meantime the harassment continues.
And here is the bitter truth: when this same individual accused Graham Linehan, the system acted with speed and force. Linehan was arrested, hauled into court, and even met by five armed officers at the airport. So why is it that when women come forward with years of evidence, we are told to wait? Why is our terror treated as less urgent?
This is what I call Criminal DARVO. DARVO stands for Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender. It’s the classic abuser’s trick: deny the abuse, attack the victim, and then present yourself as the “real” victim.
That’s exactly what has happened here — only on a criminal scale.
So I have now submitted a full complaint to the Independent Office for Police Conduct. I have laid out the evidence, the timeline, and the failures.
Because here’s the truth: I might be his first obsession, but I won’t be his last. And if the police continue to shield men like this, they are not just failing me, they are failing every woman in this country.
Source: Criminal DARVO. – Kellie-Jay